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Let’s Play the Dating Game!!!

   Dating has always been tricky for me….Even before I acquired the extra wheels for getting around places in late 2015. Why? Because I am special? Will you accept that answer? LOL, I thought not! I always seem to find the guys that are just interested in sex happy-couple-sex5…So not what I wanted or want. Yet, what I always attract- even online. Why? I have never been able to figure it out! Seriously! It’s always been a mystery to me!

   Ok, that’s not the entire truth….There is another type that I attract… the….weaker personality type? The ones that are perfectly content to have a woman that they can follow around and do their bidding and never standup to. man-begging-womanI hope that makes sense. I have a strong personality myself and I don’t like walking all over people. So this type of guy is definitely not the type of guy that I want either.

   That leaves the elusive guy I am looking for. The partner, the one that will stand up to me and stand beside me. The one that will back me up and also tell me when I am wrong, who isn’t afraid to get into a debate with me either 91028472 But, most of the strong guys I meet? They are the first type up there.⇑

So I had pretty much given up on dating. I mean common! This was my history..even on dating apps! Then you add in a wheelchair and a chronic illness that I have an extra special version of? (I am a ZebraCorn!!! Yay!!!) Enter a conversation with a friend, Ms. B, where I jokingly tell her to find me a man…yerrrpppp I am not always smart

































   So, me being me; with my huge love of psychology with a lesser interest in Sociology, I am turning this into a social experiment! And I am going to blog it all! Maybe sometime during this I will actually meet someone? We shall see!

   The first question was what site- E Harmony Ms. B says. So E Harmony it is!

   Next, the guidelines- Ms. B will help me with my profile. No I will not lie. However, we all know that our profiles do not show all of ourselves right off the bat.

   The fun part is going to be how to judge/quantify the communication, interactions, and type of guys that I interact with.

   So this blogging will have to be a 2 part thing… one will just follow my search for love…the other will be the sociological part.

   If past history holds true, then 2 main types will find me…those looking for a quick roll in the hay and those that I can walk all over…So the trick will be how I measure this part… For that Ms. B and I came up with this:

~Men I message vs. men that message me

~Then men that only want sex

~Men that freak at realizing A. I have a kid or B. are in a wheel chair or C. both (mind you all this is in my profile)

~Then it gets into the actual communication: Is it a good convo vs. one sided and boring

   All sound ok so far? That’s what we have, so far… suggestions are welcome, and I am sure this will change as things go along. This is a good starting point though.

My profile is live though, so here goes! I hope I do find someone…smiley-crossing-fingers , lmao!

Until later, internet land!

~Roni~        28945030_10215606572219822_967269963_o



I am a single mom of a beautiful 7 year old boy. I am a Witch, an Empath and have a very caring heart. I look out for those around me and do the best I can for those close to me while raising my son the best I can. I am a retired from the AIr Force and now am a SAHM. I co-own a photography company and am trying to talk myself into finishing off my psychology degrees; that there will be a use for them in the future, lol! I love life, with all the joy and sorrow it brings. Some of the stories I will share are what made me who I am. I'm proud of who I am, so please, as you read don't feel sorry for me. I write them for those who have been touched and are still suffering, and those looking for a way out now. You are not alone. There's always someone to reach out to, even if it's hard to see. If anyone needs to talk I'm here, please don't be afraid to reach it!!!

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